Melissa
Honey

I want to get involved in xxx industry!!!

Published: September 3rd, 2017

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You have been at the pub and your mate asks you questions related to your activities...come on,you've been there. How could I possibly answer the above...

Indeed, I was with a good mate of mine at the pub and she asked me the above! Then a little lecture was done  over a pint or two...lol

So my dear friend:

There are lots of categories in adult industry. You need to choose which one you prefer. Broadly I divide them into Non contact and Contact. The Non contact are nude modelling, camming, phone chat and SMS messaging. The contact are escorting and adult acting. One does not exclude the other. And one is not more important than the other. For each of them, you use a different set of skills and you may have your own preference and inclination to one of them. Of course nothing stops you from doing them all!

General things to consider:

1. Take seriously what you do: it may be a hobby for you; it may be even your sole source of income. In any case whoever pays for this is expecting you to perform and deliver what you promise or advertise to do. If you don't and you let them down, they will be disappointed even upset, you may not have a second chance. So, if you are not comfortable with any of their requests or if you can't make it for whatever reason, let them know in time!
2. Always be professional and polite and avoid confrontation with your "client". They may have been in a bad mood or you may have for other reason; it's human. Everybody deserves a second chance though.
3. Once you agree to interact, set your boundaries: your DOs and DON'Ts and stick to them.
4. The misconception of stigma: huge topic here, but in essence whoever may ever accuse you of doing this as unethical, they indirectly reveal themselves of using this industry! So, who's to blame then: the service seeker or the service provider? The chicken or the egg question...The unbiased answer is NOBODY: as long as we humans exist and request something, we shall be given! And if the talented YOU don't do it, someone else (maybe less talented) WILL!

Hope you understand the above, so we move to next topic, which is explore each of the above categories and their features; I wouldn't say pros and cons as there are not really any!

On second thought, just do a bit of research yourself and you may tell me a thing or two, when we meet next Sunday night!

by Melissa Honey

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